Top 8 Dating Rules for Frustrated Single Women in Pittsburgh

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Every woman loves meeting a guy for the first time and gauging the chemistry between them. But if you’re like many single women in Pittsburgh, then you probably hate the whole question thing by now. Where did you grow up? Where did you go to school? Do you have any siblings? Do you have any pets? Ugh, the list goes on.

After a while, those questions become a little bit repetitive. In fact, the whole dating scene can feel repetitive. If you’re tired of dating and all the games, you’re not alone. Check out these awesome tips for single women in Pittsburgh who are just like you—tired of dating.

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1. If the date goes bad, don’t give up.

After yet another horrendous date, it can feel like you’re never going to meet Mr. Right—to the point that you’ll never want to go on another date again. Maybe he chatted via text while on the date or magically forgot his wallet and had you cover the bill. But either way he’s a jerk. Of course these type of dates will leave a bad taste in your mouth, and how could they not? But this doesn’t mean you won’t eventually find Mr. Right. You have to keep going to find the right guy for you.

2. He can come to you.

This is especially true during the first couple of dates. Let him come to you and show you his true interest in pursuing you. If he doesn’t have any clue where to take you on a date, skip him. It’s not hard to come up with creative and fun date ideas other than the typical dinner dates. If he’s not willing to put in the effort it takes to impress you, then he’s not worth your time.

3. Don’t give him everything too soon.

As matchmakers, we always tell our clients never to reveal everything on the first date because they should keep their dates wanting more. So when you meet a guy for the first time, don’t give him everything on the first date. In other words, don’t reveal your whole life story. After all you want to keep him wanting more.

4. Don’t get too far ahead.

We know that, as a woman, you’re already thinking about the future on first dates. Hey, everyone does it. But don’t get too far ahead of yourself. Take it easy and enjoy the date for what it is and see where it goes from there.

5. Know what you want.

This is a dating rule many women overlook. Before you even start dating, you should have a clear idea of what you want. Are you just casually dating? Are you looking for something real? What traits and characteristics must your guy have? You don’t need to know every detail you’re looking for in a partner (and you shouldn’t), but you should have a basic idea of what you want. This way when you’re on a date with a guy who doesn’t fit the bill, you don’t waste your time going out with him again.

6. If you had a good date, call him.

If you really had a great date with someone and want to see them again, call them. You don’t have to wait for a guy to call you or wait three days to reach out. If you like a guy, pick up the phone and let him see your interest in him. Don’t waste time counting down until the right time—call him now.

7. Look for red flags.

First dates are crucial, as they show you what the guy is all about. Pick up as much information as you can while you’re out. Yes, you should look for positive clues but also for dating red flags. Maybe his previous relationship didn’t work out because she really was crazy, or maybe it was because he was a workaholic and didn’t put any time or efforts into the relationship.

8. Always be yourself.

Well, there’s no other way around it. Pretending to be someone else will never work. Eventually the mask will come off. Make sure you are yourself from the beginning, trust us, he’ll like that more.

Now that you know the dating rules for frustrated women, follow them in your own dating life and watch how things take a turn for the better.

If you’re one of the many single women in Pittsburgh who is struggling to meet quality men, don’t worry, you’re not alone. The dating scene isn’t what it used to be, and good men are few and far in between. But we can help you find the hidden gems.

If you’re ready to start meeting quality single men in Pittsburgh, it’s time you seek an expert hand. We invite you to come in and find out how our matchmakers can work their magic for you!

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