Pittsburgh Matchmakers | 8 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist

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So you finally found the man of your dreams and are ready to give him your heart. So how do you know he’s going to do the same for you? Before you fall head over heels, you must be sure he’s not a narcissist. If he does any of these things, he loves himself more than he loves you.

So where does you guy weigh in? Get ready as our Pittsburgh matchmakers reveal the warning signs he’s a narcissist.

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1. He takes selfies all the time.

Who doesn’t love a good selfie every now and then? Okay, but your guy loves them a little bit too much. If he’s constantly interrupting the conversation to take a selfie, then he clearly thinks he’s more interesting than the conversation. Someone who cares more about his looks than conversation with you isn’t worth your time.

2. He doesn’t make you a priority.

How difficult is it to go out on a date with him? Does he blow you off and give you excuses or never commit? If so, it’s because he’s putting himself first. If he is not devoting time for you and not putting any efforts into planning dates, is he really worth your time?

3. He spends all day on his phone.

Nothing should raise a red flag faster than a guy who’s on his phone all day. When you’re together, he should be giving you his undivided attention—not be glued to his phone. It’s hard to know whether to be more insulted at the fact that he’s texting other people or taking selfies. Either way, one thing is clear: he doesn’t respect you enough and doesn’t devote his time to you.

4. He doesn’t text you first.

The only thing more frustrating than a guy who spends all day on his phone is a guy who can’t even bother to send you a text. Come on now, what is he doing that he can’t send you a text? He clearly uses his phone all day long, so why doesn’t he text you? A guy who makes no effort to contact you first is too confident in his power because he thinks women should be the ones to reach out to him. Never give him that satisfaction.

5. He takes longer to get ready than you do.

Whether he’s going to the grocery store or out for a night on the town, he has to look like a million bucks. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with a guy who takes pride in his appearance, but this guy takes it to a whole other level.

6. He’s a momma’s boy.

If the new boyfriend in your life is a momma’s boy, then you need to be on high alert. Nothing massages the ego quite like being told you’re wonderful by your mother. Narcissistic men are always momma’s boys and go to them for everything.

7. He never laughs at himself.

Everyone cracks a joke at their own expense every now and then. But not your boyfriend because he thinks he’s Mr. Perfect. The ability to take a joke means accepting that one is not perfect. But that’s not the case for your man. Your man cannot take a joke and will take find it acceptable if anyone cracks a joke at his expense.

8. He hogs the conversation.

In conversation, do you feel like he genuinely listens to you, or does it feel like he wants to steal the spotlight. If he’s doing all the talking, and it revolves around his life, then he’s definitely a narcissist. A guy who puts himself first is telling you that he doesn’t care about you.

You deserve someone who cares enough about your feelings, not someone who is in love with himself. If you’re tired of dating narcissistic men, contact our Pittsburgh matchmakers today. We personally screen and vet every candidate to ensure they’re emotionally fit for dating. We do the hard work of dating for you so you can show up and enjoy meeting quality men who are compatible with you and fit for a long-term relationship. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!


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