Fall in Love This Holiday with Pittsburgh Matchmakers

Posted December 25, 2014

Are you still single this holiday? Does it feel like you can’t get a date, and when you do it’s the wrong type of man? Don’t panic. Our Pittsburgh matchmaking experts here at Pittsburgh Singles Dating Service will show you some simple tips to make a man fall in love with you in no time!

This time of year is the hardest for single women in Pittsburgh. The bitter cold weather makes you want to have a partner to spend time with, cuddle with, and spend the cheery and festive holidays with. Not only are you forced to watch endless holiday movies in which people magically fall in love, but you’re also forced to see couples walking together at the malls while they do their holiday shopping.

Sucks to be single, doesn’t it?

Don’t worry, things are going to change for you, and they’re going to change for the better. In fact, getting a man to fall in love with you isn’t nearly as difficult as people make it out to be. Our professional matchmakers here at Pittsburgh Singles Dating Service are going to teach you how to do it today.
Love is out there, you just need to put in your efforts.

1. Figure out What Man You Want

If you could pick a man, any man for that matter, what type of man would he be? Women who know how to date know exactly what type of man they want. You need to know exactly what you’re looking for before you start looking for single men in Pittsburgh.

Make a list of all the traits and qualities you want in a man, everything from looks to personality. When you know what you truly want in a partner, you know what to look for, which weeds out unsuitable candidates and bad dates, believe us!

But before you get carried away and go overboard, don’t put too many superficial things on this list. You want to have a few must-haves, but you don’t want to fill it with unrealistic expectations either.

2. Figure out What Women You Want to Be

It is important to figure out what type of man you want to date and fall in love with, but it’s also very important to figure out what type of woman you want to be. You cannot truly get to know and love a man until you truly love yourself as a person. But believe us, it’s not always easy.

Sometimes, out of loneliness, women forget who they are as people. It shouldn’t be that way but all too often it is. You need to start loving yourself first before you can be happy with someone else, which will take us to our next point.

3. Have Hobbies & Interests

Men love a woman that is interesting. If you don’t have brains, nor hobbies or interests, then how can you expect a man to be interested in you? Find yourself a hobby so you have things to talk about with him. Not only are hobbies good conversation topics, but they’re also great ways of building your self-esteem (loving yourself).

4. Dress the Part

If you want men in Pittsburgh to fall in love with you this holiday season, then you need to dress for success. Every time you walk out of your house you should put in the efforts to be well put together, which means wearing clothes that properly fit your body shape. And although it is winter, that’s no excuse to look like a bum.
Do your makeup, style your hair, and dress like a lady. You just never know when or where you’ll be meet your Mr. Right.

5. Be Healthy

You need to take care of yourself. Eat right, take vitamins, and get your endorphins going. If you don’t feel your best, you’re going to be putting off bad energy and potential candidates will pick up that negative energy and be turned off. If you’re feeling down and out, they will know. Men always know, so don’t miss any chances by taking starting to take care of yourself today.

6. Study Up

Men are into women who are smart. No, we’re not joking about this one. One of the ways women decide if a man is worthy is based on his intelligence and men do the same with women. Our matchmakers encourage you not to play the role of a pretty airhead. A woman worth keeping, someone worth a serious relationship, has to have more than air between her ears. This means you need to enroll in a class, read books, and watch the news. Intelligence is highly attractive to quality men.

7. Love Your Life

No man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is always depressed or hates life. You might be down because your boss yelled at you, but don’t let it ruin your day if you want to attract men. In fact, you should do everything in your power to avoid feeling depressed around men. Happiness is the key to romance, and until you’re happy with yourself, no one else in the world will be.

8. Have Your Life Organized

If you have a cluttered apartment or a messy car, you’re not going to get far dating men. Men want to date a woman who is clean and neat and has her life put together. Make sure that your house is clean, smells good, and everything is in its place. What if Mr. Right comes to your place and it looks like a college dorm room? That’s not going to get you very far with a mature man.

9. Work Out Regularly

Now, we’re not telling you to lose weight or that there is something wrong with you. All we’re telling you is that exercising is a great way of boosting your energy and making you happy. And what did we tell you about happiness earlier? It attracts men!

10. Don’t Be Too High Maintenance

Men hate women who are high maintenance. That is why it’s important not to be too over the top. Don’t take hours to get ready and make him wait. Also, don’t be too picky about the places you go for your dates, and never be too picky with your food. It’s okay to order a salad if that’s what you want, but if you order it only because you don’t want him to see you a meal, then you’re not only being high maintenance, but you’re also being deceitful. Go get a burger, women eat meat too.

If you’re ready to make changes in your life and find success in dating, contact our matchmakers here at Pittsburgh Singles today. Let us help you find the loving man you deserve!